Should Octomom Do Porno? Mom Talk
Nadya Suleman filed bankruptcy and is considering new lows to feed her 14 kids.
Is anyone really surprised that Octomom Nadya Suleman has filed bankruptcy?
When the octuplets were born, she vowed to finish her education, which would pay for all her family's needs. That didn't happen — no surprise there.
Now, Suleman reportedly claims that she is desperate enough to consider pornography in order to pay her bills.
Ordinarily I would say that nothing could be that bad — there must be another way. However with Suleman, I wonder what took her so long.
I have no sympathy for her. She didn't accidentally get knocked up. She knowingly, willingly, actively went in and had this done to her. She already had six kids through in vitro fertilization. She was mooching off her parents when she deliberately added an eight-pack to the equation.
If I had six kids, I would want to give some back. I'm exhausted with just the two I've got! The last thing I would do is go in and have eight embryos implanted in me.
Babies are from heaven. Just because we, as women, have the right to procreate, it does not mean that we should. Suleman is the extreme case that ruins it for the rest of us. She makes us ask the question if there should be limits on our rights to have children. Suleman's indadequacies and selfishness have certainly put limits on her children!
Her actions were entirely selfish. She has no help. No partner. No employment. The children are the ones who are suffering.
Should she do porno to make some cash to feed her 14 kids? She spread her legs several times already to get what she wanted, everyone else be damned. Yes, she might as well keep doing it.
Tommy O
6:29 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Wasn't the topic of Erin's last opinion piece gossip, and how hurtful it can be?
Tim
11:04 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
And with this, Erin's credibility is forever gone.
Nobody is going to(or should) take her seriously.
Kate A.
4:18 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
have you watched the news lately? almost everything is gossip! yet you decide to trash a person who is writing an article that is all over the news? Tim, im sorry, but i do take Erin seriously, she is a very good journalist and you are just unable to see that, also, the comment you wrote on her gossip hurts article was unnecessary and very offending
Bridgette
1:38 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012
I have to agree, this piece goes beyond a good debate, "She spread her legs several times already to get what she wanted, everyone else be damned. Yes, she might as well keep doing it." I'm sorry, that is trash talk, and when you jump in the gutter, you lose your credibility.
Big Guy
7:03 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Maybe her next piece should be about judging others, or how to build your own glass house.
Anonymous
8:00 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
She already wrote one about Gossip! LOL. Talk about being a hypocrite.
Tim
6:07 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
She is certainly off to a good start of writing that book she always wanted:
"How to flush your credibility and career down the toilet in 2 easy steps."
Sheila Raddatz
7:08 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
ouch
Anonymous
7:50 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Can I flag the article for being inappropriate? This article is nothing but a long rant.
Babies are from heaven? You obviously haven't taken Sex Ed. That's what parents tell their 3 year olds.
"She spread her legs several times already to get what she wanted, everyone else be damned. Yes, she might as well keep doing it." Now that is classy.
In my opinion, what is done is done. If babies are from Heaven (you must be religious), don't be such a hypocrite. You should write an article with real concern and real suggestions for Ms. Suleman and her brood.
Bridgette
1:42 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012
I agree with you. Her children are here, and despite Nadya mistakes (which she admits), in the here and now the woman and more important her kids need help. I would have rathered she had done a reality show though, than to get into porn. I can't imagine when her kids grow up they would want to have had the mom that was not only the 'octomom' but a porn star.
MidwestGal
7:58 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Wow...what a judgemental article! I saw an interview with Sulemen last week, her house is trashed and has spray paint all over every surface. She also paid a hair dresser to cut and straighten her hair $525. I do not think bankruptcy is the problem, I think fame is, the spot light, negative or postive has to be on some people all the time. This is her way of getting it.
Anonymous
7:59 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
We need to teach our children to be direct, to get the story straight. Gossip is repeating third-hand information. It’s wrong. It’s hurtful. It’s damaging.
Isn't this article gossip, Erin?
Alexa
8:19 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
I think we can all agree, though, that Sulemen's children are the ones who are suffering. I know, I'm speculating, but that is not a healthy environment for those poor kids. They certainly didn't ask for that.
Samantha
10:46 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
What does this have to do with our local community anyway?
MomofmanyinPlainfield
11:28 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Not only am I disgusted that this space on the plainfield patch has been wasted with this trash, but that the author, Erin Gallagher, is such a hypocrit! Shame on you Erin and on the editors here at the patch!
Lucy
11:54 am on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
I guess I don't understand how this article is considered gossip. It's classified as an opinion and it's an opinion based on an actual story in the news right now. Suleman has signed a deal to do a film starring herself. So, I too agree with Erin that it is pathetic that this woman has to sink to this level to support 14 children that didn't come along unexpectedly, she purposefully impregnanted herself without the means to care for these children. I too have no sympathy for Suleman for selfishly bringing innocent children into this world that she didn't have the financial means to care for and now has to sell herself to support them.
Kate A.
4:15 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
I agree with you, Lucy 100%. This is completely not gossip its an opinion, and it is also on the news all over!! Why should you criticize and call somebody a hypocrite when the article, and all the info in it, is on the news all over.
Dad Of Two
12:23 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Maybe there is an inside joke that I'm not getting, because all of you are attacking an author, and I think she's right. This Octomom knowingly did IVF when she didn't even have a job or a husband. What did she think would happen? Where is the father in all this? Oh, there isn't one. My wife and I took forever to conceive and this girl is like a slap in the face to the good 2 parent homes that put the kids first (not a $5oo haircut!) And thanks, Erin, for speaking up.
Tim
12:57 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
not even a week ago, this same author wrote an 'opinion' piece about how bad gossip is.
http://plainfield.patch.com/articles/gossip-hurts-at-any-age-mom-talk
I think Erin just made the comparisons to the catholic church, that were made in the comments of that article, dead on accurate.
John Moreli
1:46 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Another piece of crap of an article by the patch! The patch should print more articles about the sins of abortion instead! At least the octomom didn't abort her precious children!!!!!
Emerson
3:37 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
An article that attracts interest and a myriad of comments is a successful article, no matter the content. The aim of an online forum is to attract attention and therefore more "hits". The more Hits the more advertiser revenue. Erin is doing her job and I've enjoyed reading all the spirited comments.
Kate A.
4:11 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Huh, I guess nobody here knows what an opinionated article is. Tim, after what you commented on that gossip article last week, I say that comment should be flagged. You obviously have no respect for anyone's opinion, so why say anything? This is not gossip. It is stating facts which everyone knows in an article. Everyone calls Ms. Gallagher a hypocrite, its just an opinion. Really.
Sam
6:58 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Where ever you get your news you'll always find the entertainment section... Or the area where you'll find some more lighthearted stories. Obviously Erin wasn't hired to chase down the big stories of the day. She writes about the light hearted things, which some people enjoy reading. I'm a People/Us reader, so i enjoy stories like this. This is not cnn.com... If I want NEWS and just news I go to cnn, Chicago tribune, or the herald news.. Everyone needs to just calm down and take this site for what it is... And if you've been on here long enough you all know if it's not Tim's opinion, it's wrong..
Jeff Gaspar
7:27 pm on Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Opinion is simply that, an opinion of the author. I see no gossip here, Ms.Suleman herself is the one who reported that she is considering pornography to make money. The author, Ms. Gallagher, has simply drafted a piece stating her OPINION of this matter.
Get over it people!
Deanna Jones
1:29 am on Thursday, May 3, 2012
Fantastic opinion piece! I'm in complete agreement with your observation that she has put herself in this predicament through her own irresponsible actions and that this is just another means to an end for her. The sad part is that the only thing she appears to care about is her own 15 minutes of infamy.
mray
6:24 am on Thursday, May 3, 2012
Seriously, who has time to even give a crap about this? I have enough of my own issues day to day to worry about rather than if some publicity ho decides to do porn or not.
Joliza 555
9:39 am on Thursday, May 3, 2012
Oh puleeze! If the woman had two brain cells to rub together, would she be in this fix? She obviously does whatever pops into her head without thinking. This won't be any different...
Joliza 555
9:43 am on Thursday, May 3, 2012
I serioulsy think her children should be taken away from her. She is obviously not a responsible person. They should be put up for adoption and lord willing people who will love them and can pay attention to them will adopt them and give them a nice normal life as opposed to the way they are being raised now...in a circus by an irresponsible person who doesn't think past her nose...
Infamous Steve
10:45 am on Thursday, May 3, 2012
personally I think she is ugly as hell and I would never watch a porn with her in it. I see her and her kids as freaks of nature. The kids are pretty much test tube babies and this moron gets $2,000 a month in food stamps. For reasons like this and thousands of others I can't wait for the human race to end. And yes all of you that thought this was a gossip article are morons too.
MidwestGal
2:07 pm on Thursday, May 3, 2012
So Steve, IVF children are freaks of nature? That's a brass and bold comment coming from someone who sits around watching porn, probably colllecting food stamps himself ...if all the human race was like you we would've ended by now. Test tube/IVF babies are loved and much wanted, perhaps if you were loved and wanted you wouldn't be so angry in life.
John Moreli
4:54 pm on Thursday, May 3, 2012
Invitro is immoral! Millions and millions of unwanted embryos are thrown away in the trash every year! And with invitro, its selective choosing which baby lives or dies when a women becomes pregnant with too many implanted embryos!
Infamous Steve
11:18 am on Saturday, May 5, 2012
Yes they are freaks of nature. Yes I do watch porn every now and then. No I don't get food stamps I work. And if the human race ended by now the planet would be a wonderful place. The human race is a cancer on this planet. We rape and pillage every possible part to make a profit. That is why I can't wait for any mass extinction event.
Tim
3:00 pm on Saturday, May 5, 2012
Poor Steve. Still doesn't understand how biology works.
Mickey
9:56 am on Wednesday, May 16, 2012
How will you enjoy it Steve since you won't be here?
Infamous Steve
8:15 am on Thursday, May 17, 2012
I will enjoy it simply knowing it is coming to a end. Don't need to be here when it happens just to know it is happeneing.